Christians and Death


The Bible does not want us to be ignorant of death, because it is the final foe to be defeated. Paul emphasised the fact that we are not to be in the dark about any of the great truths contained in the Scriptures as he wrote: ‘My goal is that they [i.e. Christians] may be encouraged in heart and united in love, so that they may have the full riches of complete understanding, in order that they may know the mystery of God, namely, Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.’ (Colossians 2: 2 – 3)

Louis Berkhof commented: ‘Death is not a cessation of existence, but a severance of the natural relations of life. Life and death are not opposed to each other as existence but are opposites only as different modes of existence.’[1]

In the Bible, there are many pictorial images of life and death. In the book of Job, life is depicted as a breath (7: 7), a swift messenger (9: 25), a flying eagle (9: 260, and an intangible passing shadow (14: 2). In comparison, death is compared to a crushing of a moth (4: 19), the harvest crop being gathered in (5: 26), a vanishing cloud (7: 9), and a tree being chopped down (14: 7 – 11).

Christians should be the realistic people, facing death and embracing our mortality. We are reminded: ‘It is better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting, for this is the end of all mankind, and the living will lay it to heart.’ (Ecclesiastes 7: 2)

Although Christians are not impervious to death, much research has shown that they do live fourteen years longer than the general population. It is not to say that Christians have divine intervention, otherwise they would not die at all, but it is because they generally live healthier lifestyles, are less likely to drink or smoke too much or be sexually promiscuous.[2]

However, death is a common experience (with the exception of Enoch [Genesis 5:24] and Elijah [2 Kings 2: 11 – 12]) for we are told ‘Just as man is destined to die once, and after that face judgement…’ (Hebrews 9: 27). Thomas Cranmer reminds us in the words of the funeral service in the Book of Common Prayer: ‘In the midst of life we are in death, earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust, in sure and certain hope of the resurrection.’ However, for those who love God, we should experience the freedom from death for we are told that Jesus makes ‘free those who all their lives were held in slavery by their fear of death.’ (Hebrews 2: 15)

Jessalyn Hutto has observed: ‘For many of us, the effects of the fallen world seems like a distant theological concepts that carry little weight in everyday life. As a result, we live with expectations befitting pre-fall Eden, rather than a sin-broken Earth. We expect to live healthy, fulfilled lives…Our hearts yearn for the creation to function as God intended it to, and thus we don’t naturally expect pain, discord, or death. Yet this is exactly the inescapable inheritance we’ve received from our first parents.’[3]

Later in her book, Ms Hutto continued: ‘Suffering is not unique to Christians, but the way we experience it differs greatly from the way that the rest of the world does. The Bible says we have been united with Christ in his death and resurrection (Romans 6: 5; 2 Corinthians 4: 10; Galatians 2: 20) and that we, as his church, are members of his body (1 Corinthians 12: 27; Ephesians 5: 23). The unity between Jesus and his ransomed people greatly affects the way we suffer because it means we do not suffer alone. We face loss, pain, and death as those loved and comforted by our holy Saviour. Jesus tasted death (Hebrews 2: 9) and experienced grief partly for the purpose of personally sympathising with us.’[4]

In a survey by Dying Matters, the respondents were asked to choose what would be the most important factor in having a ‘good death.’ The response was that 33 per cent would like it to be ‘pain free’, 17 per cent would want family and friends with them, one in seven wanted to retain their dignity, whereas only 5 per cent selected having their religious or spiritual needs met. Indeed, 60 per cent of the respondents ranked the issue of religious or spiritual needs last of the six options.[5]

It is opinion of many people to echo the oft-repeated words of Woody Allen: ‘I don’t mind dying; I just don’t want to be there when it happens.’

Other people want to find ways to avoid thinking about death. The oldest method is to ‘eat drink for tomorrow we die.’ (Isaiah 22: 13) A W Tozer stated: ‘I believe that entertainment and amusements are the work of the Enemy to keep dying men from knowing that they’re dying.’

Other people are more fatalistic as expressed by Albert Camus in the book The Outsider: ‘Life isn’t worth living…given that you’ve got to die, it obviously doesn’t matter exactly how or when.’

It seems contrary to the viewpoint of Quintus Tertullian: ‘it is a poor thing for anyone to fear the inevitable.’

There is uncertainty from a human perspective as to how and when we will die. I have come across more Christians who are not looking forward to the method of death rather than its actual occurrence. Gardner C Taylor has commented: ‘We have not been promised a smooth voyage, but God does promise us a safe landing.’

There should be something of a spiritual nature at our departing that will be passed onto future generations. Thomas Cranmer commented: ‘Every man desireth, good people, at the time of their deaths, to give some good exhortations that others may remember after their deaths, and be the better thereby. So I beseech God grant me grace, that I may say something at this my departing, whereby God may be glorified and you edified.’

My life is but a weaving
Between my God and me.
I cannot choose the colours
He weaveth steadily.

Oft times He weaveth sorrow
And I in foolish pride
Forget He sees the upper
And I the underside.

Not ‘til the loom is silent
And the shuttles cease to fly
Will God unroll the canvas
And reveal the reason why.

The dark threads are as needful
In the Weaver’s skilful hand
As the threads of gold and silver
In pattern he has planned.

He knows, He loves, He cares,
Nothing this truth can dim.
He gives the very best to those
Who leave the choice to Him.

In a study mentioned in the Journal of Gerontology, it was revealed that atheists had a notably increased chance of dying over a six year period than those who are religious. A commentator wrote in response: ‘Crucially, religious people lived longer than atheists even if they didn’t go regularly to a place of worship. This study clearly suggests there is a benefit in pure faith alone – perhaps this religiousness works by affording a greater sense of inner purpose and solace in grief.’[6]  

We have a Gospel that is full of hope as we follow the Saviour who has gone through death and returned to assure us that it is conquered. The New Testament tells us: ‘Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. We know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a building from God, an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands.’ (2 Corinthians 4: 16 – 5:1)

When Benjamin Franklin was 23 years-old, he wrote an epitaph that encapsulates the essence of the Christian’s future experience of bodily resurrection:

The body of Benjamin Franklin
Printer
Like the cover of an old book,
Its contents stripped of its lettering and gilding,
Lies here, food for worms.
But the work shall not be wholly lost:
For it will, as he believed, appear once more,
In a new and more elegant edition,
Revised and corrected
By the Author

It is true that not all people have that assurance. It is told that, when she was a young child in Holland, Corrie ten Boom worried about her own death and whether or not she would have enough courage when the moment finally came. Her father. Papa ten Boom, knew of her fears and calmed her heart with these words: ‘Corrie, when I am going to take you on the train, when do I give you the ticket?’ ‘Just before we get on board,’ came the reply. Papa ten Boom continued: ‘That’s right. Dying is like taking a trip to see the Lord Jesus. He will give you whatever you need just when you need it. If you don’t have the courage now, it’s because you don’t need it now. When you need it, the Lord will give it to you, and you won’t be afraid.’

We can be assured as in the words of the hymn, ‘How firm a foundation’:

How firm a foundation
You saints of the Lord
Is laid for your faith in
His excellent word;
What more can He say
Than to you He has said,
To all who for refuge
To Jesus have fled?

‘Fear not, I am with you,
O be not dismayed,
For In am your God
And will still give you aid:
I’ll strengthen you, help you,
And cause you to stand,
Upheld by My righteous,
Omnipotent hand.’

‘When through the deep waters
I call you to go
The rivers of sorrow
Shall not overflow;
For I will be with you
Your troubles to bless
And sanctify to you
Your deepest distress.’

‘When through fiery trials
Your pathway shall lie
My grace all-sufficient
Shall be your supply;
The flame shall not hurt you,
My only design
Your dross to consume and
Your gold to refine.’

The soul that on Jesus
Has leaned for repose
I will not, I will not
Desert to his foes.
That soul, though all hell
Should endeavour to shake
I’ll never, no never
No never forsake.

There is positivity in the way that Christians live on this earth, knowing that they are going to heaven, as in the words of the song ‘My heart is filled with thankfulness’:

For every day I have on earth
Is given by the King
So I will give my life, my all
To love and follow Him

When Christians die, although it is a time of sadness as they are leaving those people they love on earth, it is paradoxically a time of rejoicing as they go to meet the Lord they love. The psalmist expressed it like this: ‘Precious in the sight of the lord is the death of his saints.’ (Psalm 116: 15)

Just before his death by his Nazi executioners, the German theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer said to a friend: ‘Death is the supreme festival on the way to freedom.’

It is a sentiment agreed with by Lilias Trotter, who wrote in Parables of the Cross (2007): ‘Death becomes a beginning instead of an ending, for it becomes a means of liberating a fresh life.’

This certainty had been stated by the seventeenth century poet John Donne who wrote: ‘When one man dies, one chapter is not torn out of the book, but translated intio a better language.’ He put these sentiments into one of his poems:

Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;
For those, who thou think’st thou can overthrow,
Die not, poor Death, nor canst thou kill me.

Death is the bookend to birth as Tony Campolo succinctly pointed out: ‘When you were born, you cried and everybody else was happy. The only question that matters is this – when you die, will you be happy when everybody else is crying?’

There is poignancy as we face death. In the closing comment in the book of Deuteronomy, it states: ‘Moses died there in Moab, as the Lord had said.’ (34: 5) The original Hebrew actually reads: ‘Moses died…with the mouth of the Lord.’ It is a phrase that the ancient rabbis translated as ‘with the kiss of the Lord.’ It is reminiscent of a parent saying goodnight to a child before seeing them in the morning. Another picture could be that of Jesus Christ as the Bridegroom kissing His Beloved goodnight before seeing them in the brightness of a new dawn.

John Donne expressed this eloquently: ‘One short sleep past, we wake eternally,/And death shall be no more; death, thou shalt die.’[7]

Billy Graham spoke of his certainty on the other side of death: ‘I’ve read the last page of the Bible. It’s all going to turn out all right.’ He also said: ‘I know that soon my life will be over. I thank God for it, and for all He has given me in this life. But I look forward to Heaven.’
James Dobson summed up his hope by declaring: ‘The final heartbeat for the Christian is not the mysterious conclusion to a meaningless life. It is, rather, the grand beginning to a life that will never end.’

C S Lewis described his hope as he approached death as ‘a seed patiently waiting in the earth: waiting to come up a flower in the Gardener’s good time, up into the real world, the real waking. I suppose that our whole present life, looked back on from there, will seem only a drowsy half-waking. We are here in the land of dreams. But cock-crow is coming.’[8]

A saint from an earlier age, John Newton, had as his final words on earth: ‘I am still in the land of the dying; I shall be in the land of the living soon.’

The true Christian hope can be found in the One who said ‘I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die.’ (John 11: 25 – 26). Jesus is the same Person who died and then defeated death by His resurrection.

We know that, if we have knelt before the cross and submitted to Jesus as our Lord and Saviour, we shall stand before the throne of God. It is then that we can say with the apostle Paul: ‘Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting? The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law.’ (! Corinthians 15: 55) We can look clearer than than we do now at the Redeemer who saved, saves and will save us from sin and death: ‘thanks be to God! He gives us victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.’ (v. 56)

There is the surety that is expressed in the opening of the Heidelberg Catechism (1563):
Question: What is your only comfort in life and death?
Answer: That I am not my own, but belong with body and soul, both in life and in death, to my faithful Saviour Jesus Christ.


[1] Louis Berkhof, Systematic Theology (The Banner of Truth Trust, Edinburgh, 1958) p. 668
[2] ‘Religion ‘can add 14 years to lifespan’,’ 24 April 2011, www,scotsman.com
[3] Jessalyn Hutto, Inheritance of Tears: Trusting the Lord of Life When Death Visits the Womb (Cruciform Press, Minneapolis, Minnesota, 2015) p. 30
[4] Jessalyn Hutto, Inheritance of Tears: Trusting the Lord of Life When Death Visits the Womb (Cruciform Press, Minneapolis, Minnesota, 2015) p. 65
[5] John Bingham, ‘Faith no more: Britons no longer consider turning to God in death,’ Daily Telegraph, 18 May 2015, http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/religion/11611621/Faith-no-more-Britons-no-longer-consider-turning-to-God-in-death.html
[6] Tom Knox, ‘The tantalising proof that belief in God makes you happier and healthier,’ Daily Mail, 18 February 2011. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1358421/The-tantalising-proof-belief-God-makes-happier-healthier.html
[7] John Donne, ‘Divine Poem X’ in Selected Poems (ed. John Hayward) (Penguin Books Ltd, Harmondsworth, Middlesex, 1977) p. 170
[8] Letter to Mary Willis Sherburne, 28 June 1963

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